Old Friends = Feeling like a Teenager Again!

I just came out of the loveliest weekend!

Next to spending time with family is spending time with dear friends - and these two that flew all the way from Ohio to visit me are some of the very dearest!

Janelle and Dora and I met at a Bible School back in 2002. The three of us have kept up through the years since then. Sometimes long spaces go inbetween the times we see each other, but we have always been able to pick up where we left off as if it were yesterday. I just love friends like that!

They flew in Thursday, we ate lunch at the Cheesecake Factory (be still, my beating heart, how I love that restaurant), and headed home...

Friday we spent the day in Savannah. Lovely old city. I hadn't been there for a little while, and it was just so fun to be there together!

In front of one of the many little parks along Abercorn - Dora, Janelle, Zoe, and Jackson.

There are SO MANY amazing places in Savannah. Imagine my deep agony when my camera battery died only a short time into the day! I was heartbroken!

Beautiful Janelle and her handsome little son.

Zoe, one of the few times she was in the stroller.

This was a more typical scene of her that day.

Well, I guess, what do you expect when you give them these photo-shoot lollipops?? :) Dora bought one for Zoe and Janelle one for Jackson.

I thought Zoe's little skirt/shoes/outfit matched perfectly with the lollipop picture, even though it was not planned!

Wow, was she one *happy* little girl with this in her hands. :)

They got so messy, but oh, were they happy! :)

Saturday: we spent a little bit - not nearly long enough - of time at an antique shop in town, then quickly ran home for a Mary Kay party! Janelle is a consultant, and did a great job of making some of my friends from the area and myself feel so pampered! And it was so fun for me to have my friends meet each other - something that's rare with how far south we live!And  I have been a fan of Mary Kay ever since my Aunt June introduced me to it when I turned 16 - she gave me some products for my birthday and I've been on them ever since! Love it!

Early morning airport run on Sunday, and I was left with the happiest of memories! I totally felt like a teenager again over the weekend - in a good sense of the word! Talking into the late hours of the night (something rare for me these days!) about life, about God, laughing until we could hardly breathe, being real and honest with each other, learning from each other, feeling carefree and young! Friendships are just good for the soul!

This is us! What a beautiful friendship we share. I love these beautiful ladies so much!

"Make new friends
And keep the old;
One is silver
And the other gold."
-unknown

It Was the Best of Times...

Indeed it was. How could it not be, the entire Barkman family together for almost a full week?

In a word, it was delightful.

Destination: Myrtle Beach, SC
Who: The Ervin J. Barkman family
Place: condo by the sea (well, by the ocean, but "by the sea" sounds better)
Time: October 31 - Nov. 5
Weather: perfect. warm during the day. cool for morning walks.

There are no words to describe how much I love my family.  I adore them.

There have been several deaths in the extended family within the past few years. I think that makes my family treasure each other all the more. Last Christmas when my immediate family was together, we spent a few moments of sad reflection on a relative who had passed not long before. Things like that are always shocking. So unfair. It could have been me.

So we remember that, and know that it one day it will be one of us that's missing from the family circle.

That's not morbid. That's reality.

 And it helps us embrace the moments we have together with all of our hearts. To live with no regrets, because it will not always be this way. Painfully though, I know because of the closeness we share, that will make the parting so much harder. But in that way, the pain is really a gift...

But today - to LIVE,
                           to ENJOY,
                                     and not take life or one another for granted.

Showing affection today, because it may be our last chance.

And on to happier things. :)

The six siblings. They are just so great!
How come the oldest sister is the littlest of them all??

And the family picture was wait to be publicized. Mother wants it to be a surprise. :)
Therefore, sadly, I have no presentable pictures of mother to be shown (I'm going by her judgment, not mine :)).

I adore this man too.

We even got to go out on a date to Starbucks one morning! Without children. Those times are rare.

After making fun of Claudia's aviators all week, we got him to try them on. Then snuck a picture. Ha. He looks like he's straight from the 80's!!

Zoe received a lot of attention. So much so, in fact, that Aunt Claudia declared her spoiled (that's another way of saying she wasn't always super well behaved). Whoops.

And little Olivia was loved on too. She's too little to be spoiled. Plus, she was born one day after Claudia's birthday, which means she can do no wrong. :))

This is a "celebrity shot" of Claudia.

Books for the ladies.

Smile. They're really aren't desperate. At all.

Bocci ball for the men. It is much too boring to simply lie on a beach towel on the sand.

Fishing. One very cold day. Fished all night and caught no fishes... Well, not all night. But no fishes.

These two are really too much.

Or make that three.

Got to wear Ervina's super cool green shoes. How I love them. I hope they know I have a birthday coming up soon. :)

The last day, THEE last, we discovered an ANTHROPOLOGY store. Why, oh, why did we not know before? We spent a precious hour in there. I left without one purchase. There were simply too many wonderful things, I couldn't decide where to spend my last remaining dollars. So I kept them.

Just to prove we were there.

They had these super cool rings in the clearance department. Marked down to $20 from $60?? But oh my goodness, they were huge!! A little overkill, maybe?

Sisters. Everyone should have at least one.

Or make that three. :) They are beauty personified.

There was a Worst of Times too. It was at the end. Saying goodbye.

Claudia is Here!

When sisters are together, well, it just seems that that is how things should be. Being almost a thousand miles apart from all three of them is just not an ideal situation. So when one of them wanted to come spend most of a week here, I couldn't have been more delighted!

The babies love her... we all love her!

This week is so special, Claudia! You could stay a month and we couldn't get tired of you!

She's beautiful, she's fun, she's witty, she's talented, she's passionate about God, she has really cool style... What more could you want in a girl?

Zoe asks for her every waking moment, and hardly allows Claudia to leave her sight. And I'm beginning to hear some "Claudia quotes" coming out of Zoe's mouth. That makes me happy, because I like Claudia quotes. And I like it that Zoe is learning to know Claudia as an individual person, rather than just another person in a larger family.

She brought this really cool lollipop for a photo shoot with Zoe... of course, Zoe was thrilled beyond words and would do anything we asked. AFTER an hour of being not so cooperative BEFORE the lollipop...

What a great week! Not happy that it's ending, but happy that I'll get to see the rest of my family - today!

Cheers to a great weekend and week ahead!

-clarita

My Daughters and Me.

Claudia is here. And what a lovely, lovely time we are having with her! I think she could stay a month and we'd only like her more! Zoe asks for her every waking moment and is quite the imitator - I see her doing little "Claudia moves" and sayings. :) Maybe I'll have a little bit of Claudia left here even after she's gone!

I had been wanting to do an informal photo shoot with my girls. I can't remember doing one since Olivia is born, where it's my girls and me. Yesterday late afternoon the backlight was just beautiful through the bamboo in the backyard. So we ran out and took a few pictures. Okay, a LOT of pictures. :) I thought I was only going to put one or two on here, but I couldn't decide!

I had picked up the dress that Olivia is wearing when Zoe' was a baby, and wore it often on Zoe'. Months later, I found a bigger size for Zoe' that she would wear at 2 years. Knowing I had matching dresses and was expecting again, I was hoping for a little girl to dress her up in them! Meanwhile, the shirt I was wearing was given to me by a sister who didn't want it. *cough* So we're matchy-matchy without really even trying.

This is one of my favorites, with the bamboo leaves blurred in the foreground and the backlight in the background.

My precious little daughters. I love having two girls! I would love to have four girls, like there are in my family. That scares Ben just a little. :)

Names were a big deal to Ben and me when we were naming our children. Meanings of names, I should say.

"Zoe' Grace" means "Life of Grace." Not physical life, but vivacious, exuberant, and bubbling-over life of the soul - which can be given only by God. I loved that. She was named that at a time in my life when I felt so much in need of that life. And God has been that to me through her. So beautiful.

"Olivia Caroline" means "Messenger of Peace and Joy." And she has been that to us! She arrived at a time when my heart was in the midst of many wrestlings, and she has truly brought peace and so much joy to us! I think it's so beautiful how God has laid names and meanings on our hearts that speak destiny to our child, but that also speak of the blessing they are to us *right now*!

Olivia and Zoe are both blonde-haired and blue-eyed, but they look so so different from each other! Olivia is growing up, but she is still our petite little baby!

Tomorrow - we're off to a family vacation! Excited doesn't even begin to describe us right now. :)

-clarita

Zoe at Play.

Because we are so far south, the weather is suitable for outdoor play almost year round.

A few weeks ago we thought autumn had come. It was a bit cooler for a few days.  But alas, it didn't last, and we're back to hot and humid once again. Running the a/c just so we can sleep comfortably at night!

And while I'd rather have cooler weather for a change, it really is nice for my little girl. She loves being outside, and if I let her, will be out for hours each day. She'll play with her "titty-tats", play in the sand in the driveway ("makin' a pie!"), and all sorts of imaginative things.

We have this little thing we say to each other when she goes outside. I'll say (from Peter Rabbit), "You may go into the fields or down the lane..." and she'll finish, "But not on the road or in the woods!" Sometimes she'll tease me and say, "Not in Mr. McGregor's garden!" :) She is an avid Peter Rabbit fan.

I ran out with the camera one day when she was wide-open with her fun.  She was running so fast I didn't have time to adjust the lighting on my camera, so it's a little over-lit. But I still like it.

I love these pictures of pure childhood. So innocent. Everything is right with the world. She has high expectations of people, of how loving everyone is to her, and most of the time her expectations are met. Life's biggest disappointments are not playing with Roland or Blake when she wants to, or that it's naptime instead of playtime. Wow. I want her to keep that innocence as long as possible.

We gave her these two cats for her second birthday. She just adores them, and begs to go out and play. They are the sweetest cats - good thing, too, because she is still learning how to be gentle with them. See below.

They can look strangled but they've never hurt her. Pretty amazing. I think I'd react if I were being strangled. If they get tired of her, they'll run up a tree. :)

These cats remain nameless, and we simply call them, "The Kitty Cats." Or, as Zoe' calls them, "da titty tats." The did have names when we got them, but they were named after two kinds of beer, and we didn't really want our just-turned-two-year-old running around saying beer names! :) Any good cat names out there?

Good thing Zoe' loves them so much, because they don't get a lot of love from Ben or me. We're just not big cat lovers - especially not when they try to run in the house every chance they get, or when they are accidentally left inside the house and make messes on beds, or when they walk all over clean cars and leave dirty footprints... But our little daughter adores them, so they stay. :)

Childhood innocence.

"... Unless you become as a little child, you will have no part in the Kingdom of Heaven." - Jesus

-clarita